Hi, and God bless you.
My name is Margie Prezioso. I have been substantially unemployed for over 3 years now and unable to find alternative employment. The reason I became unemployed was because our company was bought out by our largest competitor. All the employees from our company lost their jobs. I am 47 years old and formerly a secretary. I earned my way up the corporate ladder to working for senior management. I only have high school with a 1 year business school degree. With so many of our jobs being outsourced to India, I have been told a number of things by potential employers, from being over-qualified and too seasoned-to-too old and considered as not having kept up with modern technology. I was also told that I now needed a bachelors degree to be a secretary and that my 25+ years of experience and business school degree didn't count for anything.
I've worked my whole life, and raised my children as a single parent (until meeting my husband 15 years ago). My youngest son (now 23) had a number of health problems growing up. It seemed he was always in and out of the hospital for extended periods. To prevent the doctors and hospitals from taking us to collections we put his hospital bills on credit cards. When I first became unemployed and Unemployment Insurance ran out we felt forced into filing bankruptcy. I never thought I would even consider bankruptcy, since we had always paid our bills and considered our credit score a major priority. Bankruptcy had become our only choice to keep our heads above water in what we thought was a short term problem. I continued applying for jobs, 300-400 every single week. Of those 300-400 resumes I would receive only 1 call back every 2-3 weeks and it seemed I would never get the job. I worked with the Unemployment Office to try to figure out a plan for career change and tried a couple of new things which I not only hated but I wasn't good at, just to have a job. None of which I was successful at. I loved what I use to do.
As I've aged, I have developed a number of health issues myself. I have severe arthritis in my arms and knees. With only a High School education, the jobs that I am qualified for are limited to restaurant and retail, etc. Jobs that I cannot perform because of my arthritis. The pain would simply make my life not worth living.
Financially, going back to school is out of reach. I just don't know where to turn any more. My husband is in much the same boat, with the exception that he does have a job. Who would have thought that we would be living paycheck-to-paycheck in our 40's. Now, we've used up all of the money that we had in 401k's etc. There is nothing left to fall back on in an emergency. We're beginning to get behind on our mortgage and other bills. I'm scared. I feel like we've been falling down this well and I've been scratching and grabbing at the walls of the well trying to get a grip to stop it and I just can't get a hold of it. We've come to the conclusion that the only way we can rebuild a future for ourselves and prevent this from happening to us again in the future, is to have our own business. Only, we have no money to buy one and nobody will lend us money because of our bankruptcy.
I keep thinking that this is America, the land of opportunity, and I can't find one. I could ask for $500 to get by until next month, but next month I fear I will be back in the same old boat. What would be best would be if someone would be kind enough to buy a business and let us run it and earn our way to ownership of it to pay it back. Looking for a turnkey business, with a proven positive cash flow, including real estate. The business can be secured with real estate. You hold the deed. We work the business and pay you monthly based upon monthly profits. You pay us in stock in the business at predetermined intervals. You make money and we secure our future. Win-Win! "You could give a man a fish and feed them for a day, or you could teach a man to fish and feed them for a lifetime." We really don't want a hand-out.
Anyway, thanks for listening. It has been helpful to share my worries. If you can help us, it would be greatly appreciated - if not, I understand.
Thanks,
Margie